I have been divorced for 20 years; my exhusband all of a sudden returns from Flordia after his 7th divorce.  Since his return, I have been having nothing but problems with him.  I returned from work today to find the idiot in my home moving in a sofa for my 21 year old daughter.  My door hinges were removed, his in my apartment with some guy.  Hello!  What are you doing here, I requested for him to leave.  So, now, my daughter and I argued over it.  I mentioned that all she had to do was call me, I didn't anser my cell becasue I was at a huge expo for work and didn't hear my phone ring and I was taking care of prospects requests.  I was busy.  I stated that if she would have waited for my return; I would have allowed for the move of the sofa for her in the apartment, but, with me home.  No!   He makes  the decision and comes over unannounced, I walk-in on the situation.  So, her and I are at odds about this.  I feel as if my requests are being disrespected and his manipulating her so that he could come into my home and see how I live.  I know him like a book, he doesn't need to be here.  I stated, all you had to do was wait until I returned from work, I pay the rent, the lease is in my name, so she's against me.  She uses tactics that I don't have any friends, I do, but, I don't have time to go out and visit them; he gave me a car to use, requested that I place it in my name, then 3 hours later, he states that I stole it and threatens to call the police on me.  I attempted to return the car, but, at that point using his manipulation tactics again, I kept it.  The only reason why he wanted the car back was because the insurance was in his name and my daughter was in an accident and he wanted the insurance money; so, he accused me of stealing it so that he could get the money.  I never returned because of his actions and don't plan to.  However, it doesn't give him the right to come into my home without my permission.  Now, my duagher and I are arguing over the entire situation and she states that she believes that I did steal the car.  I can't believe the manipulation tactics he's using.  I divorced him 19 years ago for cheating on me and he had gotten another woman pregnant while we were married.  Hello!  He asked me back many times because the relationship he had with this women didn't workout.  Why should I take him back?  Included, he's also upset becasue he had to pay for an abundance in childsupport and I won sole custody.  I feel that he's trying to make us break-up our relationship that my daughter and I have.