You might be able to find a friend to confide in or you can sign up at specific forums that cater to your problem and post your questions there. You would be surprised how many people want to help you in these forums. You will get any support that you need without violating your privacy. Don't be afraid to express yourself. People always seek to help others. Your significant other may be dealing with his own issues and may come around sooner than later especially when he sees that you have changed and appear different. To find forums, go to google.com and type in "SRA forums." See what you can find.

Ok this will sound crazzy, but I found that this helps. I found myself not to long ago were you are. So one night I was on the computer just looking around. I ran into this so called game.(it is but its not). Its called Secondlife, www.secondlife.com go to it. Trust me, sing up its free. You will many great people from all over the world that can really help you with ant problems. Its a diffent way of dealing with life, but I'v been doing it for 5 mounths now and my relationship is better. I wont tell you to much but when you go to the sit dont turn away it weird at frist when your read it, but please try it. Many freinds of my close friend that need support, are also on sl. It helps. Try it you will be happy with it.