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Nickname: dinotrama
Date: 2/27/08 21:43
  
Teen frets over boy. (usual)

He loves me.

He loves me not.

He loves me.

He loves me not.

Oh, I guess Im out of pedals. 

 

I understand how people often talk about how bad there life is, and I am here to tell you how great mine is. I have everything in the world I could ask for except the abulity to make a guy comit.

Well he is older but on its still legal. He is one of my older sisters best friends, and I really like him. We have been seeing eachother for about 4ish months now. But he won't acutaly admit to likeing me infront of his friends. He is a very talented kid, and we both have a pasion for music. We are both smart even if his grades don't always show it. We have alot in comon, yet one big diffrence.

I need him to say he will be here for me.

He doesnt have time, because music is his life right now. He cares about me and likes me alot, but not quite enought to make a leap.

I constantly wonder to move on; it wouldn't be hard really. I know Im at an age where I should be exsperienceing things and getting a real taste of what is out there. Everytime Im about to move on, he has time for me, but it ends later. We come from the same town, a small town. I probably see him on average 3 times a day. 25% of that time he ignoleges my exsistence. The other 75% I am past, and forgoten. Ive asked him if I was an embarrasment: I didn't quite get the answer I wanted. (Girls would understand how I feel). He answers, "I wouldn't say it like that." Id ask what he ment but I don't think he could have answered that. I always ask him where we are going to go, but he can never answer. So Im set to fing my outlet and a place where I could get someone elses opions without them judgeing me.

If you couldn't get a guy to comit in this situation, what would you do?  


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Nickname: guest2
Date: 4/23/08 19:53
  
You mentioned that it would not be hard to move on.  Although you like and admire this person and have many things in common; it does not seem as if he has the same emotional maturity as you do.  If you  get to know more people and can get beyond your familiar spaces and into other environments, you might find that other people are more interesting, more talented and even smarter then you had expected them to be.  When you come from a small town, it is hard to imagine what people from other places might be like.  You deserve to be treated as the wonderful person that you are, with so many qualities that many other guys would not be able to resist.   You are young, and as you said, this is the time to meet people, and learn more about relationships, friendships and the difference between someone whoSEEMS interested, and someone who IS interested.  No one who values another person, should ever make them feel unimportant.  If this guy is the right one, he will miss you and do something about regaining your interest.
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