Did you try doing an online search for pagan clergy in your area?

I did, and this is what I turned up with one click...

Virgina

Patrick Belisle patbelislevirginia.edu patandjanentelos.net

Garold Cline (Washington State and Virginia) y2kcpoyahoo.com If you need help, you need only ask.

Jennifer Gray JeniGray75aol.com

Rev. Dr. Erik J. Mangini Newpreachercs.com

Marcus T. Milliken (Alexandria) noachitehiram.net

Rev. Patrick R. Nelson (DC, Northern VA and Prince Georges, Howard, and Montgomeryand surrounding Counties, MD) Non-Denominational Marriage Ceremonies, Commitment Ceremonies, Handfastings, Memorial Services, Child Blessings/Wiccanings,House Blessings, Solstice/Equinox Rites, and most other Pagan/Wiccan events. Available in for those seeking non-traditional or Pagan/Wiccan religious services.

Janice Nickels (Dungannon) Lutah24245yahoo.com

Rev. Cassie Roy cassieroy01msn.com

Rev. Austin Streat (Richmond) Austins77aol.com

Rev. John R. Tate, M.Ed. phoenix_32juno.com

Mary Vanparys ldysaboinayahoo.com

Elisheba Weathers (Portsmouth) cfeministrieshotmail.com Web Page Address: http://www.webspawner.com/users/cfeministries
Stress Management Therapist. Counseling, ceremonies and services for all religious traditions and spiritual beliefs

I found these listings at: 

http://www.spiritualhumanism.org/directory.htm

Of course, you would want to verify and choose carefully when dealing with internet listings, but this is a beginning.  I'm sure there are other sites out there to search as well.

At my website, The Witch's Corner, on the page of rituals, you'll also find a link for handfasting clothing and other articles...

http://ladyamythyst.webs.com/rituals.htm

Bright Blessings on this beautiful day,
Amythyst