Mary Lee Lykes is a wedding Officiant in Seattle.  I saw her website when I heard about these lovely ceremonies and how to find the right person to officiate at your wedding. www.seattleweddingofficiant.com  An even better site: seattle.allwedding.com/officiants/index.html has a huge list of these people and their locations in the metropolitan Seattle area.  Each description on this site, tells you a little about the person.  There are retired judges and people who specialize in nondenominational services, and many more.  It will probably take time, and some searching, but the person who officiates  at your wedding should be right for both of you.  It is so important to make that connection.  Best wishes and good luck with your search.